Approach Mastery Bootcamps

Asian Dating Tips for Singles

Japanese dating, Korean dating and Chinese dating can definitely be tough. Girls in Tokyo are always on the go and while Korean girls seem friendly, it can be hard to turn that into more than a few passing smiles.

Asian girls are a mystery when you first start dating them, but the reality is that they are hardwired just like other women and if you apply specific principles in the right way, you’ll soon be able to have the Asian woman of your dreams–the Asian women you see on the streets everyday or partying it up on Saturday night.

So what is it that you’re really missing and is holding you back from ultimate success in Japanese dating, Korean dating and Chinese dating and keeping you from meeting and being with the Asian girls you really want?


The average Asian woman has far more experience dating and interacting with men than you do interacting with women because guys have been after her since she was 15 years old. And often, these women weren’t having little cute middle school flings. They were dating guys in their 20s and sometimes even 30s!

It’s time to play catch-up.

And you can go into it blindly with your fingers crossed OR you can go into it with the right skills and tools.


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Approach Mastery

In our 3-day, 25-hour Approach Mastery boot camp, held regularly in Tokyo, Osaka, Seoul, Hong Kong, Shanghai, Beijing, Taipei, Singapore and other Asian cities, we will teach you everything you need to know to bring high-quality Asian women into your life. You will learn not only how to approach and have interesting conversations with not only Korean girls, and girls in Tokyo, but Asian girls wherever you find them and how to turn these conversations into solid dates.

You will learn:

  • Asian women’s emotional circuitry
  • Asian women’s psychology
  • Reading body language
  • Presenting effective body language
  • Dressing to attract her
  • Using your voice to make your words compelling

We will teach you:

  • How and where to find the kinds of women you want
  • How to approach them
  • How to effectively get past language barriers
  • How to begin interesting conversations that she’ll want to continue
  • How to touch her without being creepy
  • How to get her real phone number
  • How to stay out of the friend zone
  • How to make her want to date you
  • How to schedule the date immediately
  • How to make the first move effortlessly
  • How to escalate the physical relationship

You must be genuinely considering working with us or you wouldn’t have found your way to this page.

Choosing to take a PickUp Asia boot camp is hardly like choosing a pack of gum. It’s serious commitment of money and time. If you’re like most guys, you’re wondering whether it’s really worth it.

The answer is different for each person and really depends on what your personal goals and desires are for your dating and relationship life.

Some guys would rather spend the time to painstakingly learn it on their own. That’s what I did since there was no one offering the kind of training that PickUp Asia offers.

It took me many years to get to the same level of mastery many of our clients reach in just a few months!

A lot of our guys take boot camps because they would rather take the shortcut to success with women and use their valuable time for other things like traveling, relaxing and making money, knowing that their woman situation is handled(whether that means that they are with one special girl or several is up to them).

Some guys already have some level of success–maybe not the level of success they aspire to, but enough that it’s not worth it to take a few steps back so they can ultimately charge further forward.

Breaking down old habits that are producing moderate results can be hard. That’s why most people keep the same unsatisfying job or girlfriend so long–the lure of comfort, safety and tranquility.

Maybe that’s where you see yourself now. Or maybe you’re here because you can’t have the comfort and tranquility you seek without a major upgrade to your dating and relationship situation.

Regardless, I can’t tell you whether a boot camp is for you or not, but I can tell you that we’ve made it a VERY full, VERY intense weekend because we have found that it’s the most effective way to give you the skills you need to get the women you want.

We used to allow guys to take anywhere from 2 to 4 of the sessions in a weekend. But we found something very interesting–but so obvious in hindsight(isn’t everything?)

We discovered that those guys who took 4 sessions turned out not a little bit more successful, but IMMENSELY more successful than the guys who only did 2 or 3 sessions with us. I know, DUH!

And I have to admit that our pride is all tied up in this too, because we only want the best representing us. We don’t want our boot camp Alumni walking around telling people they worked with us and not having beautiful women to show for it.

Our best advertisement is happy men, parading around town with such high-quality women that their friends want to know how they can do the same thing–that their friends are in fact begging for the keys to the kingdom of game.

So, what is game?

Game is the ability to act in social environments and accomplish your goals, especially when it comes to the ladies
(not a Webster’s definition)

I hate to break it to you, but this is not something you can suddenly wake up with. You need a huge database of experience to cover the range of what you find in different social situations and you need to screw up enough times to ultimately get it right.

I can’t promise that you’ll be a pickup giant by the time our 25 hours together is over but I can promise you that you will have the firm foundation you need to become the ladies man you’ve always dreamed of being.

I’m also not gong to lie to you and tell you that you’ll be drowning in a sea of women from the time the boot camp is over. It doesn’t work like that usually, though you could be the exception.

(And here’s where I disappoint you, by telling you that this is no magic pill or silver bullet…that you’ll need to work hard, sweat, change and develop new habits and behaviors. This is where we separate the men from the MEN, because real MEN are strong enough to face up to tough challenges that make them grow stronger.)

How it works is that you learn how to really crank up the pace you fill that experience database during the boot camp and keep at it for 3-6 months and you’ll see HUGE leaps in the kind of women you date and the quality of the relationships.

I can tell you this, and stand behind it with our 100% Gold Standard Guarantee, because I’ve seen it OVER and OVER and OVER and OVER again. Whether you’re young or hitting your 60s, and whether your rolling in the cash or are the typical poor student, we can make it happen for you, just like we’ve made it happen for so many guys before you.

These are guys you can meet in any major Asian city when we run one of our free Mini-Seminars or talk to during one of our free teleseminars. A few of our boot camp Alumni always come out and play(we’ve got love like that).

They all got the same 25 hours of intensive experiential brain re-wiring that we call a PickUp Asia boot camp. We’ve consistently found that that amount of time is what it takes to build that firm foundation of action, experience and understanding of female psychology that has allowed our boot camp alumni to be so consistently successful.

There’s something about that 25 hours that gives boot camp participants time to push their boundaries and have enough new experiences that by the time Sunday evening rolls around, their re-wired brains can take a fresh look at life, women, sex and relationships and start making major positive changes.

You’ll learn to use PickUp Asia’s Phase5 Cycle and you’ll use it so many times that it will be drilled into your head. At a bare minimum you’ll be able to open and hook sets–which means that you’ll be able to approach and start conversations with women in the daytime, at coffee shops, malls, on the street, and at bars and clubs.

So imagine for a minute that I give you some gear, a rifle, combat boots, a uniform and drop you into the middle of a war zone…

There you are, bullets flying–your knees shaking–and if you’re like me, you’ve lost control of a few bodily functions, PLUS, you’ve got no training, no plan, and no clue.

Now imagine for a minute that I give you a fly shirt, designer jeans, a bottle of Moet, killer kicks and I drop you into the middle of a hot club…

There you are, goddesses swirling, and besides your shaking hands, and darting eyes trying to catch all the exposed skin, you’re completely frozen, PLUS you’ve got no training, no plan, and no clue.

I’ve been there. I WAS there and I absolutely refuse to go back. I escaped and I’m bringing as many guys as I can with me

Meeting and talking to women can be stressful. And when you’re stressed, sweating and with butterflies in your stomach it’s hard to think of anything other than, “Let’s get outta here!” It’s our natural reptilian brain, fight or flight response kicking in.

That’s really what the boot camp is about overcoming.

We call it a boot camp for a reason. And just like a boot camp, where soldiers are drilled under pressure so that when they are in a real combat zone, their natural instincts take over, we drill you in our Phase5 Cycle until it’s virtually instinctual.

Even though you’re feeling the rush of adrenaline that makes your mouth dry, your palms sweaty and your feet ready to make a run for it you’ll still be able to do what it takes to GET THE ASIAN WOMEN YOU WANT.

The pressure is real because you will be interacting with complete strangers, just as you will in the days, weeks and months after your boot camp. Of course, I, RedpoleQ, or one of our Approach Coaches will be there to take the heat if it gets too heavy, but this is about you developing your skills and your talents in the fire of the forge.

Progressive Desensitization

Some guys talk about the temporary “boot camp high”.

The boot camp is great because you have a real pro right there holding your hand.

The boot camp is terrible because you have a real pro right there holding your hand.

Eventually you have to learn how to cross the street on your own. Is it scary? You bet. Do you have the skills and training you need to make it across the street safely? You bet. Look both ways!

Ready to let go of Mommy’s hand yet?

Some people think that because they feel the same, they haven’t changed. Well, I feel the same as I did 5 years ago–I still get the same heart racing action when a smoking SUPER $$$ Asian girl walks by me–but yet my life is totally different.

7 years ago, I was happy to get ONE girlfriend who was significantly cuter than either of the other two I’d had before. Now, I can’t keep track of all the beautiful women in my life.

But I FEEL the same.

Doesn’t matter. What I’ve learned and experienced has changed me and I have the results to prove it.

Maybe how you FEEL after the boot camp won’t change, but what will change is that you’ll know a lot more and you will be so close to the women you’ve always wanted that you’ll be able to smell their perfume on your finger tips.

By the time your boot camp is over you will have approached, 100, 150, 200,or more women;
you will have met women in bookstores, coffee shops, restaurants, clubs, bars,
and on the street

Most guys think they know what will happen if they talk to a woman. They conjure up all sorts of outcomes based on movies they’ve seen, books they’ve read and a few past experiences here and there.

But after approaching 100, 150, 200, or more women in the course of just 48 hours, you’ll no longer be guessing. You’ll have more knowledge about women’s behavior than 98% of the “men” walking this planet.

You will be an approach master compared to the guy sitting one desk over.

This will change you. You will have abilities you didn’t have just 3 days earlier. Abilities you can go on to use to build a new life.

Some guys, come wanting to be entertained rather than work. They come out of curiosity to see rather than to learn.

The boot camp weekend is not about
what we can do,
It’s about what we can teach YOU to do.

Will you be able to see the instructors in action? Yes. But the boot camp is about you and the things you can do that you didn’t know you could do. Come prepared to work. You will be exhausted physically when it’s all over. We start at 7pm on Friday and finish at 7pm on Sunday–48hours, 25 of which will be GO! GO! GO!

Mentally, the pace you’ll be working will keep your brain firing. And with all those women you meet, you’ll have enough information about women, their behavior and psychology to keep your mind chewing for weeks.

In fact, most of our boot camp Alumni report reliving their boot camp moments as their brain processes all this new information in their sleep. Sometimes for months after.

PickUp Asia’s boot camp really does leave an indelible mark on your mind by creating scores of new neural pathways.

It’s a lasting experience.

Instead of sitting around in circles chanting,
use the human mind’s most potent force
for change — action

And after it’s all said and done? After your 48 hours is up we don’t drop you off in the woods never to be seen again. As a member of our private forum only for Approach Mastery boot camp Alumni, you’ll have access to a serious brain trust of dating and relationship information.

I, RedpoleQ, read and respond DAILY to questions posted on our Approach Mastery boot camp alumni exclusive forum.

PLUS, you get to benefit from the the wealth of experience and knowledge of all our boot camp Alumni spread all over the world–Seoul, Tokyo, Osaka, Fukuoka, Hong Kong, Vancouver, Shanghai, Kuala Lumpur, Taipei, Toronto, Paris, Dublin, Boston, Bangkok, Singapore and other cities.

We’re a really active community of guys
who work hard and play hard

Our exclusive forum members post more than 15 posts a day. And while a lot of it is about women and dating, we’re no one trick pony.

Guys, who started out just like you, are using what they learn about running their brains better to improve all aspects of their lives including their professions.

So while we will definitely make sure that you get the relationships you want with the women you want, you’ll be able meet, work with, and become friends with other guys who are also building the kind of incredible life that you want for yourself.

Understand that the boot camp changes your life.

One of our guys quit his career at a top investment bank to travel around the world and then pursue his goal of becoming a stand-up comedian. Another finally started pursuing his childhood dream of becoming an inventor and he’s now presenting his inventions to companies for manufacturing. Another guy, who was divorced and 43 years old, married a 21 year old chinese girl and moved back to the US to start his own hypnotherapy practice.  Several have built online businesses that mean they don’t have to work and can live anywhere in the world they want.

The stories are countless, and it all started with them realizing that they could be, do, and ultimately have more in their lives.

How much is this worth to you? Our boot camp Alumni tell us that the dramatic changes they’ve experienced in their lives are priceless.

Our 25+ hour intensive in-field boot camp training course is US$1,500. It’s not cheap. As I’ve said, this is a serious commitment of money and time. I meant it. It’s not for everyone, and maybe it’s not for you.

We hope it is because there’s nothing we like better than working with cool, motivated guys like you and helping you GET THE ASIAN WOMEN YOU WANT.

We specialize in Asia. We live here, we work here, we play here. We will take you to the best nightclubs, coffee shops, restaurants, where you will meet the kinds of high-quality Asian women you want in your life. And then we will show you how to get them, right there. At the end of our 25-hour Approach Mastery boot camp, you will be on your way to successfully mastering Japanese dating, Korean dating, Chinese dating and dating Asian girls wherever you find them and creating the kinds of relationships you want. That’s our promise. That’s our guarantee.

What you get:

14 Hours of “In Field” Training: 2 day game sessions and 2 night game sessions where you’ll have a PickUp Asia instructor with you while you meet and interact with women on the street, in coffee shops, bars, clubs, restaurants and malls, who will give you immediate corrective feedback–he’ll spot what you’re doing right and he’ll let you know what to improve on too.

9 Hours of Seminar Time: You’ll learn PickUp Asia’s Phase5 Cycle, a proven step-by-step system that guys from the ages of 19 to 62 have used meet, date, and have relationships with the women in over 9 countries!

4 Hours Debriefing: At the end of each session, we’ll review what happened with you and answer any questions you have, celebrate your awesome successes, and you’ll learn how to self-evaluate so that even afer your boot camp you can continue to improve.

The Black Book: the official PickUp Asia training manual(a Boot Camp Alumni exclusive). Over 70pages with the exact steps that will take you from meet to sex in about 5 hours that you can keep to review as needed.

PickUp Asia’s Boot Camp Routine Stack: our tried and tested PickUp Asia boot camp ROUTINE STACK, will make it so that you not only know what to say, but learn the structure to develop your own personal routines that will fit seamlessly into our Phase5 Cycle.

And, you’ll be added to the PickUp Asia Alumni mailing list which include these 6 exclusive reports:

“How to Run Phone Game” The exact strategy I use to keep the momentum going between meets with women.

“RedpoleQ Rides…The Ferris Wheel” In this FR, I explain step-by-step how I met this 22 y.o. law student at Starbucks, scheduled her using text game, and the routines I used to set the exact frames I needed to get a blow job on the Ferris Wheel before taking her back to a love hotel and sealing the deal.

“Are You Missing Your Windows of Opportunity?” How to recognize and take advantage of opportunities when they appear, and my line-by-line text in English and Japanese that I used to make this girl cook me dinner, and fuck her before dessert.

“Sketcher: The D-Move” Learn this one simple technique that cuts through a woman’s Last Minute Resistance to sex, instantly.

“Re-Frame” Find out why you are wronging women by not getting out there and giving them a chance to be with you

“Calibrate LMR” Learn the technique I developed to be able to KNOW the difference between true and token LMR and never again leave a girl wondering why you didn’t sex her.

This report package is worth $200.

PLUS, you’ll get ongoing support that will ensure you aren’t throwing away $1,500 but multiplying the value of your Approach Mastery Boot Camp 10-fold:

BONUS #1 4 Follow-up Skype Calls: We’ll set goals and review your sticking points over four weeks so that you continue to get feedback, have a clear development path and STAY ON THE WAGON–building on what you learned and experienced at your Approach Mastery Boot Camp. A normal sign-up for one of these calls, is $40 each, making this worth another $160. But the real value is that it ingrains the skills you learned in the boot camp so that it becomes a part of your new more successful life.

BONUS #2 Lifetime Access to The A-Team: the exclusive forum for PickUp Asia boot camp Alumni where you’ll have continuous access to RedpoleQ, and our community of experienced veterans who have been through the boot camp and have enjoyed the kind of success with women dating and relationships that you want. Post the details of your successful, and not so successful nights(and days) out, ask questions, and share discoveries–get solid feedback within 72hours. Valued at $1,200 per YEAR is yours free forever when you do an Approach Mastery Boot Camp.

(More than a few, have taken our programs just so they could have access to this amazing resource that is our community of dedicated Alumni, filled with 1000s of discussions covering everything from women, dating, relationships and sex, to personal improvement, business, entrepreneurship and personal finance)

Can You Pay Too Much To
Change Your Life Forever?

At US$1,500, a PickUp Asia Approach Mastery Boot Camp is not a low cost investment, but this is about changing your life so that you can have the kind of relationships you’ve always wanted with the kind of women that blow you away.

Trust me when I tell you that there’s nothing like the feeling of being with a woman who every time you look at her you think, “WOW! I am one lucky guy!” Imagine the pride you feel walking down the street while the envious look on wishing they were you.

An Approach Mastery Boot Camp is one of those things that you’ll always wish you’d done sooner, because every moment of your life that you don’t have the skills and tools you learn during this 25+ hour training is a moment you’re living unsatisfied with your dating life.

And if you’re not sure that an Approach Mastery Boot Camp is for you, that’s fine too. We know that what we offer isn’t for everyone which is why we have…

Our 100% SOLID GOLD Money Back Guarantee

You and I both can’t be sure if the Approach Mastery Boot Camp is right for you. We can’t know if it will take you where you want to go.

So while it’s worked for over 127 guys in more than 9 countries, you may be that rare exception. We know you’re putting your trust in us by spending your time, money and energy.  To take some of that risk away, if at any time you feel that the Approach Mastery Boot Camp isn’t for you, we’ll return your money(in solid gold if you prefer), no questions asked.

We’ve done it before, and we’ll do it again if necessary, because we’re not just looking for satisfied customers–we’re looking for RAVING FANS who feel that working with us is the best investment they’ve ever made in their entire lives.

Looking forward to working with you,

PickUp Asia’s Master Boot Camp Instructor

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RedpoleQ is an awesome instructor,with a wealth of knowledge about the minds of Asian women.–Caspian 24 Seoul, Korea


Back in February when I first learned about the community it was like everything suddenly made sense, that this was why I wasn’t getting the girls I wanted. I knew that I deserved them. Sometimes they even flirted with me. But because I didn’t reciprocate, the only times I was getting the girl was when she was being very persistent.As I read more about game, I thought I knew what to do. But then when I saw a really hot girl I suddenly forgot it all. The few times that I actually got talking to a cute girl I’d be thinking about game but not be able to use it in the conversation.You know – she’s asking about my job and I’m thinking “what does doing the cube on her have to do with my job?” To say nothing of actually touching her.Even though I’d read so much and I believed it was possible, I still didn’t have half of the real knowledge that I needed. I didn’t know what to do.Now, I know.-JazzMan Shizuoka, Japan


RedpoleQ and Allusion were amazing coaches, the density of pickup knowledge that was taught to me in that timespan was thicker than lead, I was happy to absorb 20 or 30 percent of it.–Lupin 35 Tokyo, Japan


RedpoleQ is one of the most resourceful mentors I’ve ever come across. He’s patient, understanding, and most of all: compassionate. I’ve personally come a long way in my life thanks to him. Do yourself a favor and learn as much as you can from this guy. –BlueMystery 24 Seoul, Korea


Redpoleq guided me as I rebuilt my frame from the ground up. I analysed what I was offering, and it’s a hell of a lot.–Ultimate_Player 33 Hong Kong


Thank you RedpoleQ for the time and energy invested, you guys are really great at your calling and I am indeed proud and honored to be a part of the tribe.-GladIAteHer Seoul, Korea


Wow, Redpole knows his shit.–Caesar California, USA


I have to fight and break free from a lifetime of social programming. And as I write this I have an insight that maybe it’s not social programming…it has been my own programming all along.Everything that I am right now is because of my own thoughts and actions in the past. But thanks to RPQ I am now headed in the right direction. He has shown me the door. I must take the red pill and walk through. The journey begins here.-TheRedPill Tokyo, Japan


RedpoleQ had a huge positive impact on my evolution of who I have become and who I am still becoming. Short term his coaching gave me a clear system from meet to lay, which got me layed a few times a month right from the get-go.Long term, I’m extremely inspired by the way how he’s doing his job with so much passion and commitment. When he’s coaching me, I know for sure that he’s 100% present with me, and he’s giving me his everything to help me the best way he can.Meeting him or thinking about how he does his job is a huge stimulant in living my life to the fullest too, and putting passion in the things I’m doing, because I know he is, and he’s clearly a very happy person.-Bert L. 21 y.o. Belgium


RedpoleQ – You told me all the models and showed them to me. You gave me the foundation for everything that happened and made it feel great.-NewLight 21 Tokyo, Japan


Early January 2007 outside Sam and Dave Umeda. I had had the wonderful idea to bring a target and her friend to a gaijin club. Oops. I spent the whole night watching her hit on this other guy (some other friends had been cockblocking him for me, but she kept finding her way around them)We were outside and I was watching in horror as she exchanged numbers with that guy. I was seriously freaking out. It was early in my development and I was completely attached to the outcome and taking it very personally.Even though Redpole was busy consoling his girl (who was freaking out over something unrelated), he noticed when the other guy was momentarily distracted and helped me out.He said to me “Take her hand and walk that way,” while pointing south. I was somewhat bemused and bewildered, but he repeated “Take her hand *now* and start walking. There are taxis there. Just take her! Be a caveman!”I did it. I took her hand and said “We’re going this way,” while doing my best to act like a caveman leader, taking a new mate back to his cave.She pulled back a little, but came with me. She even began squeezing my hand back a bit. My mind was racing, but just I kept bringing my thoughts back to what Redpole had said, “Be a caveman!”Got in the cab. Got back to my place.Knowing when to bring out the caveman paved the way for many a subsequent lay. Redpole smoothed out that sticking point of mine with just a few sentences. Almost two years later, I remember that as one of the big turning points in my game. -K.A. 30 (only five months younger than Redpole!) Osaka, Japan


RedpoleQ is professional and knowledgeable in the Pick-up field. He holds nothing back and is always there to help out virtually anytime in the day. At the same time, he is just an awesome fun guy to be with. I sincerely thank him for showing me a path where I thought never possible.–KaRyu Hong Kong

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